OMG!.. I thought that I was the only women on the planet that dealt with this same problem from my significant other. He really has no clue how important it is to protect our hair! Though I am not natural protecting relaxed or chemically processed hair is of equal importance..Ive warned him that the one thing between him and my greatest feature(which is my hair according to him), is my silk bonnet......With that being said, I hope he never asks me to choose between the two!!!!!!..Lol... I say..... ........."POWER TO THE BONNET"!!!!!!!